Desperation is the No #1 Enemy of Manifestation
Do you feel desperate for manifesting things, people and other desires? You want them so badly that you keep thinking about them and which causes anxiety in you?
Well, the majority of people face this challenge and it blocks their manifestation. Yes, goals are important and they do have timely significant. But feeling desperate for them will only delay the manifestation.
You have to understand this fact that Law of Attraction is about you and your life so with the practices of various tools and strategies you are basically re-shaping your life in a positive way. There is no time-bound or time-specific thing as it is depending upon you and your vibration. The more positive you are, your manifestation capabilities enhance and take you towards your goals in the best possible way.
So when you are at peace and do not run behind things, your desires start showing up or you find more opportunities for manifesting your desires.
When you are desperate and anxious you do not see the opportunities and signs that the universe shows you. As you are too busy thinking about the outcome which is why your manifestation take so long or you just give up. Sometimes, people get so obsessed with the result that they start practicing one Law of Attraction tool and next day expect result out of it.
In this post, we are sharing an amazing story of Jane, an awesome tribe member who has learned and realized that when you run behind things or people they do not come, only when you let go of your fear and desperation and try with positive expectations they appear.
This is her amazing journey of realizing how to become more content with life and create true happiness for herself.
Happiness And Manifestation Go Hand in Hand
Hello Awesome AJ Sir!
First of all, I hope you are really well, I am literally just watching one of your videos right now (about the benefits of meditation). I thought about sending you an email in the last two days, then I thought to myself that maybe I shouldn’t, but here I am writing again.
Lots of things happened since the last time we talked, I think it was in the summer. I calmed down a lot, and let go of things that don’t serve me, and stopped stressing, focused on my goals (still yet to achieve, however the travel goals I always achieve very quickly! LOL) and was calm. Continued the Heal Your Heart Meditation which I do every day, I basically pick one of the days and repeat it on a daily basis, there are a few particular days that I really like so I repeat them. I also practice gratitude by writing down so I can appreciate more where I stand in my life, and also I have gone through the forgiveness cycle of the guy that I like as… things started getting really better between us but I couldn’t stop my hatred and anger and was crying for a while and asking myself why was I chasing him, after all, that happened.
Anyway once I tried one of the techniques (back in October) from one of your videos about attracting an evening out with that particular person and it happened instantly. Even the fact that he initiated the conversation left me speechless, he took me to his house and introduced me to his friends while having a barbecue.
Later on, in December while he was away home for 3 months, (October till January) we got told that our boat was going to be sold but we will continue to get paid till it happens. I was happy as finally, I will start to think ahead and try to manifest something new, I was overly excited actually for a new job.
I was due for my holidays in February and left home so excited. I wasn’t sure where I was going but definitely somewhere in Asia, starting again from Thailand and then most probably Vietnam. It happened that I met a guy friend from last year and we decided to try a new island in Thailand for a few days. We did and I ended up spending 3 weeks there! Every time I was about to leave I couldn’t. Could be that I experienced some fear too, and also because I was so peaceful and blissful there.
I was always smiling. People were complimenting me about everything, I got given the nicest bungalow for the same price, I was always positive thinking good thoughts. Even thinking about the guy at work made me smile and laugh and I did send him photos of the nice beach and the paradise I was living in, and he always replied back by complimenting about my holiday and how he wishes he was there. I was basically living in a perfect world of beach, nature, nice birds, sun, few friends, good food, etc. I also reunited with an old old friend of mine (I knew she was going to be there hence why I went) and I couldn’t be happier!
I decided to leave anyway and try a new place, my desire was to experience Myanmar and I was very close to its border by land, down south of Thailand. My first attempt didn’t work as my old friend Anya happened to also come back to the mainland to buy some stuff, then I realized I forgot something on the island so I decided to return and spend a few more days with her. However, the feeling of adventure didn’t leave me and knowing I had spent a lot of time on the island I decided to try the second attempt. By now I only had one week left from holiday! It was hard leaving, lots of tears, even the owner of the bungalow was telling me that he thinks I was going back for the third time and he and his crew were going to miss me. I told him I need to leave and be alone for a while and try new places.
I did leave and I went to Myanmar and I slept in the most comfortable places, the border had just opened to tourism only two years ago if not less, and I met the lovely Myanmar people and it was exactly like I imagined it. They treated me like a princess, there weren’t a lot of tourists and that’s exactly what I wanted. I was so happy!
By this time my captain sent me an email saying that the owners decided that they were going to come back very soon in about three weeks and use the boat. I wasn’t expecting that and I almost planned to change my flight and continue to travel in Myanmar for another three weeks as this place is so new and though quite poor I loved the CONTRAST which made me realize how these people are happy with nothing and we are always complaining and how much money we earn more than them.
Unfortunately, I had to leave after a week but I had a very blissful week and, although the island in Thailand was paradise, I realized that I had a lot of adventure in me and I am glad that I left and continued alone and met new people (not like last year where I didn’t accept the new place and I flew back to the original place).
I felt so blissful and I think when I was on the island, I didn’t have to write things down as, as soon as I woke up in the morning and looked around me…… wow….what a beautiful beach what a beautiful sight… I used to swim first thing early in the morning and say to myself wow this is heaven for me thank you, God. The fact that I took about 100 photos of the same beach says it all!
I came back home last Friday, long trip and a bit sad as I kept thinking I wish I quit my job before my holidays so I would continue Myanmar. I was so much into the flow !!! I think I need to do this for 6 months straight. Definitely 3 months next year! and Maybe more.
The funny thing is this… I was so high, so up there, my face still smiling. I hugged my parents and spent all day showing them the photos at home. The next day I worked and went to work really happy hugging everyone not a sign of a negative thought :) The guy I like sent me messages in the evening telling me to go to his house as his friend was away. I didn’t go and I didn’t feel like, I just wanted to cherish my happy memories. The next day he asked again and so I said yes, we were meant to stay in and watch some movies and talk, and have a drink together. Instead, he took me out for dinner and he paid and we listened to some live music. Things happen when we least expect them and WHEN I DO NOT THINK ABOUT THEM SO MUCH. Actually, I didn’t really think about wanting it at all.
My mind just SWITCHED into another state! I can’t explain it.
All of a sudden, I do not wish for the guy anymore, I wish I don’t have this job, and I wish I could never return. Funny, I know, and a bit crazy too. I realized I could live a very basic life without makeup and nice clothes, and just surrounded by nature reading a book and experiencing new cultures.
When you spend time with yourself and know yourself, you will not be desperate and will not depend on the opinion of others to make you feel happy. You will find peace in self and doing things that you love.
This is the true art of living. Focus on building and transforming yourself and make the best out of this journey of life.
You can join our Heal Your Heart Meditation Program to free yourself from all the negativities and burden that you have been carrying in your heart since years until you are peace with these negative experiences you cannot grow and enjoy this beautiful journey.
Loads of Gratitude & Love!
Stay Motivated, Stay Awesome!